I struggle with how personal I should get on this blog. I’m generally a pretty private person. I don’t feel comfortable sharing many specifics about my family on my Facebook profile. Here, on this blog, I like to share details about all the yummy food we eat in hopes of introducing a new idea or inspiring different nutritious options in your home.
But, my life is much more complex (as are other bloggers’ lives) than what you read here.
I have contemplated sharing a devastating occurrence in my family for the past week. I have decided to share it because I would like to ask for your support.
My father-in-law, a mentor and father figure to me for the past 18 years, passed away after a brief illness. Our family is still in shock and deeply saddened by this. He was diagnosed with leukemia and just three and a half weeks later was gone. He was just 69 and no one was ready to say goodbye.
I write today to ask you to consider this: donate your blood.
During the course of my father-in-law’s illness he received numerous blood transfusions. If it wasn’t for the American Red Cross and the generous people who donate their blood, he wouldn’t have had all those blood transfusions that helped him feel better (if only for a short period of time). If you have type O blood, then it’s even more important that you consider donating since you have the universal blood type. Of course, there is a lot that goes into determining if blood is the right match for someone who needs a transfusion, but it’s helpful nonetheless.
Thank you for your support during this awfully difficult time. I will be back soon…
Oh, Jennifer! Your absence has left a worrying feeling in my heart for the past month or so. I should have acted on that feeling and checked in on you. Please know of my heart felt sympathies and care I feel for you and your family. I can’t imagine the shock, pain, and longing you all must be feeling. I pray that the emptiness in your hearts will be filled with peace and hope. I wish I could hug you and bring in a meal or be there to just listen, but I hope you feel my embrace and love across the miles.
All my love,
Emily xo
Emily, thank you for this note. It’s been really difficult and hopefully time will heal. I accept your virtual hug and love.
Thanks for that. xo
I hope your message spurs people to donate Jen, it is such an easy and helpful thing. Hope you guys are hanging in there.
We’re hangin’ in, Anne.
We’re keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
And, for those in the area, there is a blood drive listed at St. Denis Grimes Center (although the address lists Brookline Fire Co.) on Monday, July 30 from 1:30 – 6:30 pm. Either location is close by and Jen’s story is a testament to what a difference this small gesture can make in someone’s life.
Corry – thanks for your kind words and for noting this blood drive. If you go to the ARC web site, there are always many drives within a short distance. Even our library has one coming up in August. They’re everywhere!
Jennifer, I am sorry for your loss. I am praying for you today.
Thank you, Kika.